Duties of the Maid of Honor

So you have been asked to be the maid (or matron) of honor at a wedding and you’re wondering exactly what is going to be expected of you. Firstly you need to understand that there is usually some cost involved with this position, from the dress and shoes to party arrangements. Also as the maid of honor there are a number of duties that you will be expected to perform.

These duties may include:

• Being available to the bride. Sound easy? You will be expected to help in any way possible with all pre-wedding planning:

          Choosing locations
          Choosing invitations
          Music
          Decorations
          Seating arrangements
          Dresses
          Dinner menus

• Attending all pre-wedding functions i.e. the engagement party and the dress rehearsal
• Hosting the bridal shower
• Planning the Staggette
• Making sure that the dresses will be done on time and they are altered as necessary
• Organizing the bridesmaids, make sure that they are aware of what they are required to do and when
• Helping the bride to dress
• Making sure that the bride arrives on time to the ceremony
• Adjusting the bride’s veil and train throughout the day
• Holding the groom’s ring if there is no ring bearer
• Signing the marriage license
• Holding the bride’s bouquet during the ceremony
• Giving a speech at the reception
• Keeping track of all gifts to the couple and who they are from

And the most important part of your job is to provide emotional support for the bride throughout all of these stages. And keep a sense of humor!